Sacrifice - Sinead O’Connor (mp3)
What Do You Want Me To Say? - The Dismemberment Plan (mp3)
A plague o' both your houses! -- Mercutio
America has forgotten what it means to sacrifice.
We think sacrifice is having to delay our retirement.
We think sacrifice is having to pay more for our own health insurance,
or to pay higher taxes,
or to get less welfare,
or to have your pension plan reduced,
or to lose a few million in a stock nosedive,
or to avoid maxing out another credit card.
Sacrifice used to mean something.
It used to mean a devoted man placing his young son on an altar and preparing to slaughter him merely because his deity demanded it of him. Or dropping everything -- every single thing -- to follow some wild-eyed long-haired Nazarene.
It used to mean a willingness to put one’s life at death’s finicky door in the support of what our country meant. From the earliest days of our country, men and eventually women willing to lose years of their young lives, possibly body parts, possibly their entire existences, for the noble cause of keeping some weird thing called The American Dream “alive.” Yes, they were willing to die for some dream other people can have. Not even real stuff. Just a dream. Just a silly ideal.
Only 11 years before I was born, an American President actually had the gall, the unmitigated gall, to tell his people they should ask not what their country could do for them, but rather, what they could do for their country. That poor man would never get elected today. He wouldn’t even get past Iowa straw polls.
Sacrifice as a real thing, as something with actual weight and import, is dead in America, and I’m not sure it can be revived.
Not to say all of us have lost it. Latino men who sneak across the border, who work for below-standard wages, who live in ramshackle hotels with three other men so that they can send a large portion of their meager earnings back to wives, children, families. These men know sacrifice. Naturally, we don’t as a society approve of them being here. They piss us off.
Soldiers still know sacrifice, although most of them have little sense of what they’ve offered until they’ve had to offer it, until they realize whatever has been sacrificed is gone forever.
The more politically engaged and opinionated you are, the more likely you’ve forgotten the meaning of sacrifice. Because I haven’t heard one politician talk about it. They can’t. They won’t get elected.
Sure, they might say the word, “sacrifice,” in stump speeches about taxes and entitlement programs and unemployment and crap. But they use “sacrifice” in the same way we use “annihilation” when we talk about football games that are 28-0.
When George Bush had the world’s sympathy and the country’s desperate ear, he could have warned us, begged us to prepare for sacrifice in light of 9/11, but instead he told us to go shopping.
Obama’s first approach to our frightening recession was to ask no one to sacrifice anything, but merely to generate higher spending levels so that everyone, rich and poor, could be numbed, so any chance of having to sacrifice anything substantial might be avoided at all costs.
I don't blame them. These men avoided making us sacrifice anything because we won’t dare allow them4. We would hate them forever. We might even do them harm.
It’s not just Presidents. Our Congressmen and -women, our Senators, they only talk about sacrifice when it’s about the people not voting for them. Democrats demand that the rich step up and make sacrifices good for the country by paying higher taxes. Republicans demand that the poor stop expecting freebies and sacrifice these “entitlements” as notions that we can no longer afford.
No one tells the people in their tents to sacrifice a damn thing. It’s all about what that other guy isn’t sacrificing that holds us all back.
We have become a nation of coddled, spoiled brats.
And I’m one of them. You need only see my reaction when my iPod freezes up a second time in a day, or when my chance to see the Foo Fighters in concert gets waylaid by professional obligations. I’m as pathetic as the rest of you. We suck, and we do it as one big whiny collective.
But here’s the hard truth. We either figure out a way to better grasp what real sacrifice is, and what it means, and what it requires of us, or the world will come and cash that check for us. It will force us to sacrifice things, and we won’t get to choose.
This has already begun, in small ways, during this recession, but it’s only going to get worse. If we can’t right our own ship, we’re going to get annihilated in ways that will make us wish we were still sitting around making fun of the Detroit Lions.
And hey, Ayn Rand, if you’re somewhere reading this, go fuck yourself. Preferably not in any way you would remotely enjoy.
Monday, August 15, 2011
This Is Where The Summer Ends
Gillian Welch--"The Way The Whole Thing Ends" (mp3)
This is where the summer ends,
In a cloud of pure destruction,
No one wins.
--Ryan Adams
There is no more confusing time of year than the "end of summer." When is it? Or, better put, when is it for you?
It is a different date for almost everyone. In terms of calendar, summer hangs on until September 21st. On the traditional school calendar, it's Labor Day that marks the end. At the other end, for those involved with football, especially camp, the "summer," such as it is, may end as early as late July/early August. After that date, they're back at it. And in between are all of the different start-up dates for schools, colleges, year-round schools.
For those not involved in education, summer may indeed end after the requisite two-week vacation, whenever that is.
And yet, for those of us in teaching, the date is clear, obvious, perhaps even circled on the calendar. It is not the first day of school. That is for students. They have their own dreaded day. No, for us, it is the date when school duties clearly and officially overwhelm free time, when afternoon departures from work and free evenings are a thing of the past.
For me, that date was last night. A casual dinner for new faculty at the headmaster's home, free drinks, delicious food, good conversation. By all accounts, a nice time. And yet, I dreaded it all day yesterday, not for what it was, but for what it represented. The end of summer.
I know full well that for any number of reasons, pedalogical or otherwise, our current school calendar is "wrong." Originally built around farm work and harvests, it now seems to create a scenario where students forget everything they've learned over the long summer months, and so they return each year as empty vessels that must be refilled again. But it is also a chance for them to do different things--travel, work jobs, engage in different kinds of learning.
I'm also selfish. I love summer. The extended vacation is so much a part of the rhythm of my life that the thought of breaking it up to create a more efficient school year is something that I know I should embrace but that I hope doesn't happen until after I retire. Even though I've been "working" for a good bit of the summer, I still carried that vacation mentality to and from the job each day.
Simply put, the days are longer in the summer and the days are longer in the summer. Not only does the increased sunlight add a special lustre to each day, culminating in a late sunset, but we also work shorter hours, which means more of the day left for other things. Leaving work at 4PM is a joy; a minimum of a 7-8 hour days remains to do whatever we want--tinker in the garden, enjoy a leisurely meal, take a walk just for the heck of it, gather with friends. We're not racing to get food on the table. There are usually no particular obligations in the evenings, except those that aren't obligations, just things we want to do.
Ah, bliss. All of that has ended now.
As if nature somehow knew, the air has been cooler the past two mornings, the daily highs a few degrees lower than what we've struggled with all summer long. Whether due to drought or heat or simply being worn out, the grass has started to slow its growth.
But what about us? Those of us who live the school year circle of life have got to find the inspiration, have got to rev it up, have got to find our focus once again. The cruelest lesson in all of life is that summer is over. The greatest gift is that, like our students, we get to unlearn that lesson each year for nearly three months before we face it anew. Again.
This is where the summer ends,
In a cloud of pure destruction,
No one wins.
--Ryan Adams
There is no more confusing time of year than the "end of summer." When is it? Or, better put, when is it for you?It is a different date for almost everyone. In terms of calendar, summer hangs on until September 21st. On the traditional school calendar, it's Labor Day that marks the end. At the other end, for those involved with football, especially camp, the "summer," such as it is, may end as early as late July/early August. After that date, they're back at it. And in between are all of the different start-up dates for schools, colleges, year-round schools.
For those not involved in education, summer may indeed end after the requisite two-week vacation, whenever that is.
And yet, for those of us in teaching, the date is clear, obvious, perhaps even circled on the calendar. It is not the first day of school. That is for students. They have their own dreaded day. No, for us, it is the date when school duties clearly and officially overwhelm free time, when afternoon departures from work and free evenings are a thing of the past.
For me, that date was last night. A casual dinner for new faculty at the headmaster's home, free drinks, delicious food, good conversation. By all accounts, a nice time. And yet, I dreaded it all day yesterday, not for what it was, but for what it represented. The end of summer.
I know full well that for any number of reasons, pedalogical or otherwise, our current school calendar is "wrong." Originally built around farm work and harvests, it now seems to create a scenario where students forget everything they've learned over the long summer months, and so they return each year as empty vessels that must be refilled again. But it is also a chance for them to do different things--travel, work jobs, engage in different kinds of learning.
I'm also selfish. I love summer. The extended vacation is so much a part of the rhythm of my life that the thought of breaking it up to create a more efficient school year is something that I know I should embrace but that I hope doesn't happen until after I retire. Even though I've been "working" for a good bit of the summer, I still carried that vacation mentality to and from the job each day.
Simply put, the days are longer in the summer and the days are longer in the summer. Not only does the increased sunlight add a special lustre to each day, culminating in a late sunset, but we also work shorter hours, which means more of the day left for other things. Leaving work at 4PM is a joy; a minimum of a 7-8 hour days remains to do whatever we want--tinker in the garden, enjoy a leisurely meal, take a walk just for the heck of it, gather with friends. We're not racing to get food on the table. There are usually no particular obligations in the evenings, except those that aren't obligations, just things we want to do.
Ah, bliss. All of that has ended now.
As if nature somehow knew, the air has been cooler the past two mornings, the daily highs a few degrees lower than what we've struggled with all summer long. Whether due to drought or heat or simply being worn out, the grass has started to slow its growth.
But what about us? Those of us who live the school year circle of life have got to find the inspiration, have got to rev it up, have got to find our focus once again. The cruelest lesson in all of life is that summer is over. The greatest gift is that, like our students, we get to unlearn that lesson each year for nearly three months before we face it anew. Again.
Hello Monday! Hello Coffee!

Good Morning!
I'm still in sleep mode, how about you? It rained like crazy for most of the weekend and right now I hear angry thunder outside so the pattern will most likely continue into the week, joy! This weather makes me feel like being home under the covers, grrrr!! Since I'm feeling sleepy today so I've got caffeine on the brain, that's right - I'm on my second cup of coffee... So here are a few caffeine inspired images and an inspirational quote by Thomas Edison to get your creative juices flowing. I'm really loving the quote and the coffee bean/cup owl up above. So, how was your weekend?
P.S. - Keep calm and make coffee - because that's what I'll be doing... ;)



(All images in this post were sourced via Pinterest)
Jewelry by Natural Glam
Hello, hello!
Today I have a great jewelry feature post for you! Natural Glam is a store on Etsy with beautiful handmade jewelry by a very talented artist (and fellow bohemian soul, hehe) living in Los Angeles, California named Candice! One day I was browsing Etsy when a pair of Candice's earrings (seen above) immediately caught my eye, such bohemian beauty! When I clicked over to her store page I also noticed her wonderful motto, "Handmade Jewelry for the Goddess that Lives in Every Woman" (amen!) along with pages of gorgeous handmade pieces.
I fell in love with so many of her earrings that I ended up ordering five! Yes, five! I gave one pair to my cousin for her birthday, another pair to my mother and greedily kept the other three for myself, although my mother and I frequently share our jewelry so we get the best of both worlds! Suffice it to say my cousin loved her pair, my mother adores hers and I have received lots of compliments on the other earrings whenever I wear them out. Yes, as you will see they certainly have an attractive bohemian vibe!
I love my purchase from Natural Glam and I'm very excited to share this source with you, all of the pieces are stunning, unique and affordable! I asked Candice for a bit of information about herself and what inspired her to make jewelry, here is what she had to say:






Today I have a great jewelry feature post for you! Natural Glam is a store on Etsy with beautiful handmade jewelry by a very talented artist (and fellow bohemian soul, hehe) living in Los Angeles, California named Candice! One day I was browsing Etsy when a pair of Candice's earrings (seen above) immediately caught my eye, such bohemian beauty! When I clicked over to her store page I also noticed her wonderful motto, "Handmade Jewelry for the Goddess that Lives in Every Woman" (amen!) along with pages of gorgeous handmade pieces.
I fell in love with so many of her earrings that I ended up ordering five! Yes, five! I gave one pair to my cousin for her birthday, another pair to my mother and greedily kept the other three for myself, although my mother and I frequently share our jewelry so we get the best of both worlds! Suffice it to say my cousin loved her pair, my mother adores hers and I have received lots of compliments on the other earrings whenever I wear them out. Yes, as you will see they certainly have an attractive bohemian vibe!
I love my purchase from Natural Glam and I'm very excited to share this source with you, all of the pieces are stunning, unique and affordable! I asked Candice for a bit of information about herself and what inspired her to make jewelry, here is what she had to say:
My name is Candice and I live in Los Angeles. I grew up in a household that was always bursting at the seems with creativity and I’ve always been surrounded by unique and talented individuals who encouraged me to do my own thing.I have been creating jewelry for a few years now. I initially picked it up from my mom who has been creating jewelry for about fifteen years and who I now design a lot of pieces with…we are always in collaboration and I enjoy that very much.In the beginning of 2010, part of my New Year’s resolution was to open up an online boutique to offer some of my wares; however it wasn’t until December of 2010 that I signed up on Etsy and listed my first item on New Year’s Eve 2011.Right now 95% of my pieces are totally handcrafted and I work primarily with brass sheet metal. I like drawing my own designs with little or no computer aid (because I feel like it allows me to actually put my handprint on my work so to speak). Next, the pieces are hand cut, forged and usually hand textured for dimension - most pieces are then embellished. I try to use very little commercially made components when creating my jewelry. The result is one of a kind jewelry - which symbolizes individuality - and a boho tribal chic look that is naturally glamorous.If I had to describe my work I would have to say that it is a manifestation of a gift, blessing, and an honor coupled with a little faith (which I am always working to increase). With that said, I strive to create jewelry that is meant to adorn the soul and to encourage self-love and acceptance. I believe that we should all have reverence for our individuality and uniqueness and the core things that make us who we are, be it cultural or spiritual….we are all innately special and we need to celebrate that as well as respect the right for others to be who they are.
Well I've gotta say, it seems like Candice and I have a lot in common when it comes to our outlook on life... I'm a firm believer in respecting ones individuality and exploring all of the passions and interests that make me who I am. Additionally, I believe it is very important to encourage others to do the same, which is why I formed Inspire Bohemia in the first place, especially in a time when there is so much media telling you who and what to like/admire/buy/etc. Everyone should realize that honoring their individuality, personal style and interests is the key to a fulfilling life. With that said - Candice, your creations are amazing and your vision is strong and meaningful, I have no doubt you will go far! I wish you much success with your jewelry making and any endeavor you wish to pursue in this life. Please let us know when you come out with new pieces as I would love to showcase them for my readers.
Don't forget to drop by Natural Glam and take a look at all of Candice's creations, there are lots more! I hope you all love this bohemian jewelry as much as I do!
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| Turquoise Crescent Pendulums (hammered brass and Howlite Turquoise stones) I love how Candice uses succulents as decorative props in many of her images! |

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| Cherry Jubilee Brass Shields (hammered Golden Brass with cherry Agate gemstones) |

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| Blue Nile Brass Shield Earrings (hammered brass with Lapis stones) |
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| Turquoise Spears (hammered brass with Howlite Turquoise stones) |

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| Moon Goddess (hammered brass with cherry Agate gemstones) |

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| Boho Hippie Brass Shields (hammered brass with Howlite Turquoise stones) |
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| Hand Forged Copper Prosperity Shields |
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| Hand Forged Copper Shields |

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| Goddess Cowrie Drops |
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| Marrakesh Elephants |
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| Queenly Tusks (brass and Howlite Turquoise stones) |

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| African Batik Bone Tusk Earrings |
(All images in this post are property of Natural Glam and should not be reused or reproduced without her written consent. Please visit Candi's Etsy store to contact her.)
Friday, August 12, 2011
Craigslist Miami Finds: 8/12/11

Hello again, I'm back with another Craigslist Miami post! That's right, today I went through the many pages on Craigslist again and extracted the best antique, vintage, Mid-Century Modern furniture and decor that I could find! Not all of it is affordable (at least by my standards) but it's proof that you can certainly find great things on Craigslist if you just take some time to look! Remember people, one man's trash is another man's treasure.... Or in this case, one man's trash is this woman's bohemian treasure! Hehe... :)
Enjoy and have an awesome weekend!!

Antique Oak Wood Telephone Table/Bench
I absolutely love these sweet little telephone tables and really want one of my own! Growing up my mother had one in our home but these days it lives over at my aunt's house! Maybe one day I can get it back and refinish and reupholster it!

Antique Wood Armoire - $150.00
What a bargain! This is an awesome armoire!

Mid-Century Modern Wood Chair by Designer Greta Magnusson Grossman made by GLENN of California - $375.00 for the pair

Antique French Art Deco Wood Armoire - $300.00

Vintage Mid-Century Modern Teak Wood Table - $600 o.b.o.

Antique Mahogany Wood Table - $75.00
This wood table would be great for a foyer or hallway!

Tufted Lounge Chairs - make an offer
These lounge chairs are absolutely stunning, I love them! They really have a vintage Mid-Century Modern look to them, however the ad does not give any specific information so they could very well be modern interpretations! Either way, they're awesome!

Antique Wood Singer Sewing Machine Table - make an offer

Antique Wood Desk - $350

Vintage Glass Pendant Chandelier Lantern by designer Frederick Ramond - $20.00
The ad says it's in perfect working order and it seems to me that, if polished up real good, this could be a great pendant chandelier light for a porch or foyer... And for $20? It's a vintage designer bargain!

Two Antique Wood Regency Style Chairs - $300 o.b.o. for the pair
What an amazing chair -it's all in the details!



Antique Wood Dresser/Buffet/Sideboard
A little toooo expensive for me, but gorgeous!

Antique Wood China Cabinet
An expensive beauty, but a beauty nonetheless!

Antique Silver Candle Holders - $60.00 for the pair

Antique Brass Flatware/Dinnerware from Thailand - $50.00 for entire case

Antique Wood Three Panel Mirror Divider - $500.00
Muy muy expensive but oh so pretty!

Medieval/Gothic/Antique Cast Iron Cross Candle Holder/Wall Sconce - $60.00
This is nice!

Vintage Mid-Century Arco Floor Lamp - gold chrome and yellow marble base - $1,250 o.b.o.
Not my cup of tea, but I know these floor lamps are coming back in style... Lately I have seen them tastefully mixed in with an eclectic array of items in many different rooms and they look great!

Antique 14ky Gold Pocket Watch from the 1880's - $900.00
Wowza! Expensive and equally lovely!
(All images in this post were sourced via Craigslist Miami ad listings. For more images and information for each item please click the description link beneath each image to be redirected the original listing page.)
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